No matter how well deserved it is,
Dealing With Criticism
The important thing is, not to feel you are the only one getting criticized.
Others, and many of them well known,
have smarted in their turn over words hurled at their head.
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The great Mark Twain had many critics too.
Moby Dick got shot down in flames so badly
it took 50 years before it became a classic.
You can take it for a given fact:
That is one of the lumps in the pudden.
I don't care what kind of writing you do, the more public attention you receive, the more criticism you will find is showered upon you, your work, your stance, and your precepts.
Here is my policy for dealing with critics..
Don't ever depend on non professionals to evaluate how well your stories drive.
In fact, if you believe in your work with all your heart, don't let ANYone's good or bad evaluation deter you from that belief.
On the other hand, If you need help and know it, don't be afraid to ask.
I constantly hear the advice to QUIT rewriting your work when you have invested all the time in it that you can afford. That is like producing a half-baked potato. Do that consistently and chances are you will end up working for editors so far down the food chain they have to like it or lump it.
The advice to quit when the bell rings may be true for the polished writer, but the only way I have found to become a polished writer is to keep on rewriting anything you produce until you are a polished writer. Even after you are selling much of what you write, my experience says to come back to rewrite what you have already sold until you are proud of it.
In order to become a great writer
You can write quicker, faster, and better by drilling yourself to get better at spotting what needs rewriting, before you put it down on paper. Soon the words you write in the first draft will be truer to your higher self than the words you produced only after the many rewrites you did in the beginning of your career.
Twelve year old Caitlyn came to visit for a week and we pulled out all the stops to put on a good show. We took her to shows, We took her to Robber's Cave. We took her to see the rune stone at Heavener. We took her shopping, and spent time with her we did not have to spare. When Caitlyn went home she left a note behind to let me know just how much she appreciated my efforts to show her a good time.You don't care about nature, really. You're just looking for stories to write.
Those stories about your childhood would make anyone fall asleep.
You could make enough money to buy another car if you'd quit writing and go to work.
You are deaf, and you are stupid.
Without Grandma around, you couldn't even begin to take care of yourself.You couldn't sing even if you tried. Why don't you shut up?
If I were Grandma I would shoot you.
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